My Guilty Pleasure

If I have a guilty pleasure this is it - WILFMLR. Whenever I seek it, it's a click away. Remember 'Khul ja simsim'...same way !!

All you need an Orkut account. Log in, go to someone's account, click on personal information and check 'What I learned from my last relationship' If it's blank, check the next account. If it's there..the party is on.

Gems scattered across Orkut, some in my backyard, the friend's list. Others discovered on my travel binges around Orkut. There is nothing like WILFMLR to get over a frustrating day.

Here are a few gems. My own top 5 list,
- Never ever care so much that you will get hurt...of course this was my fate!
- Never trust a person fully
- dont share your dreams with anyone
- Don't forget
- its hurting when ur friend admire another one who is not so close and hurt u for such person (there were 3 more hurts further down this line..ouchh)

I love it for it always reflects the deepest emotion. A shadow fight born out of a loss and a assured win, for the hope lives on. I almost feel that it's a open letter in disguise. At mid noon, a dream refusing to die. Quiet a comic situation, I suppose !!

In fact check the 'About Me' after WILFMLR' and it's hilarious. 'About me' says 'Enjoying Married Life' with a caveat of 'It was my fate..blah blah'. Good luck dude..I almost blurt out.

These lessons from last relationships sometimes amaze me. How can a guy or a gal with such deep pain seem perfectly happy when we meet - In office, parties or on chat. Going after careers, planning vacations, raising kids. All for what, I ask; only to accept my own defeat. For I do not know, will never know. Weird, but their failed relationship means my defeat. Very unfair !

My guilty pleasure now gets me to WILFYLR. What I learned from Your Last Relationship.

You bet it taught me a lot, on a free scholarship. Here are a few reflections,
- Your last relationship is ongoing
- Hope is your strategy
- You are a practicing polygamist or polyandrist

Knowing you are all good people and some even my friend's, I must apologise for my brashness. But I see you with a basket of roses in hope that somehow your prince charming takes one.

Instead why not try a belated red rose just for the prince that rode by. It will be a tough conversation. Either fresh sparks will fly or a closure set in.

Either way, just be assured that I will write something about 'What I learn from your Current Relationship'.


All the Best !!! - Kedar